Conflict management in the age of TikTok psychology

Everyone thinks they know how to assess and diagnose the behavior of others, and that spells trouble

Have you ever witnessed a boxing match where you suspect that the matchup isn’t equitable? You suspect that one boxer may be punching above their weight class? It makes you wonder if the scales were tipped some how at weigh-in because it’s clear that one of the boxers simply shouldn’t be in the same ring as the other.

When I was in my late twenties, I a…